Anniversary gifts by year
Each year has a material: paper for the first, wood for the fifth, silver for the twenty-fifth. The traditional list goes back to Emily Post’s Etiquette of 1922; the modern one was added in 1937 by the American National Retail Jewelers Association, and the Emily Post Institute keeps both.
| Year | Traditional | Modern |
|---|---|---|
| 1st | Paper | Clocks |
| 2nd | Cotton | China |
| 3rd | Leather | Glass |
| 4th | Fruit or flowers | Appliances |
| 5th | Wood | Silverware |
| 6th | Iron | Wood objects |
| 7th | Copper or wool | Desk sets |
| 8th | Bronze | Linen or lace |
| 9th | Willow or pottery | Leather |
| 10th | Aluminum or tin | Diamond jewelry |
| 11th | Steel | Fashion jewelry |
| 12th | Silk or linen | Pearls |
| 13th | Lace | Textiles or furs |
| 14th | Ivory (choose faux) | Gold jewelry |
| 15th | Crystal | Watches |
| 16th | Wax | Silver holloware |
| 17th | Furniture | Furniture |
| 18th | Porcelain | Porcelain |
| 19th | Bronze | Bronze |
| 20th | China | Platinum |
| 25th | Sterling silver | Sterling silver |
| 30th | Pearl | Diamond |
| 35th | Coral (choose faux) | Jade |
| 40th | Ruby | Ruby |
| 45th | Sapphire | Sapphire |
| 50th | Gold | Gold |
| 55th | Emerald | Emerald |
| 60th | Diamond | Diamond |
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1st anniversary: paper, or clocks

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What I Love About You Fill-in-the-Love Book112 pages of ‘what I love about you’ prompts to fill in by hand

Under $25
Landmass Scratch-Off World Map Poster, 24 x 17 inScratch off each country you’ve been to together

The splurge
KODAK Printomatic Instant Print Camera, PinkPrints photos on paper instantly, for the first-year album
2nd anniversary: cotton, or china

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Bedsure 100% Cotton Waffle Weave Throw Blanket, 50 x 70 inFor evenings on the sofa: 100% cotton waffle weave, 50 x 70 in

Under $25
Lightnpro Hemstitched Cloth Napkins, Set of 12For the dinner table: 12 napkins, 88% cotton and 12% linen

The splurge
mixinni Blue and White Striped Duvet Cover Set, QueenFor the bed: a 100% cotton queen duvet cover with 2 pillowcases
3rd anniversary: leather, or glass

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Moonster Refillable Leather Journal with Embossed Heart, A5For letters to each other: full-grain leather, 320 lined pages

Under $25
Toprank Full Grain Leather Luggage Tags, Tan, Set of 2One for each suitcase: full-grain cowhide tags, not PU

The splurge
Fossil Logan Leather Flap Clutch Wallet, BrownHer wallet: Fossil LiteHide leather, 12 card slots, RFID lining
4th anniversary: fruit or flowers, or appliances

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LEGO Botanicals Bouquet of Roses 10328Flowers that keep: a dozen LEGO roses in three stages of bloom

Under $25
Harry & David Royal Riviera Pears, 6 lbFor the fruit year: about 12 Royal Riviera pears, 6 lb

The splurge
KitchenAid Artisan 5 Qt Tilt-Head Stand Mixer, Contour SilverFor the baker: KitchenAid’s 5-quart tilt-head mixer, 10 speeds
5th anniversary: wood, or silverware

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BABILONIA Walnut End Grain Cutting BoardEnd-grain walnut: easy on knives; oil it now and then

Under $25
Regal Games Cribbage Set with Folding Wooden BoardCribbage on a folding wooden board, for two to four
6th anniversary: iron, or wood objects

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Lodge Pre-Seasoned Cast Iron Skillet, 10.25 inFor the iron year: the Lodge skillet made in the USA, 10.25 in

The splurge
Iwachu Japanese Iron Tetsubin Teapot, Hobnail, BlackFor the tea drinker: Japanese iron, made in Japan, 22 oz
7th anniversary: copper or wool, or desk sets

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Pendleton Eco-Wise Wool Throw with Fringe, 54 x 60 inFor the wool year: 100% wool, made in the USA, machine washable

Under $25
ACUSHLA Merino Wool Newsboy Cap, BlackFor her: a 90% merino newsboy cap with a satin lining

The splurge
Mauviel M'Heritage 150 B Copper Saucepan with Lid, 1.9 qtFor the cook: French copper outside, stainless inside, 1.9 qt
8th anniversary: bronze, or linen or lace

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Danya B. Couple on a Swing Cast Bronze SculptureFor the bronze year: a sand-cast bronze couple on a swing, 9 in

Under $25
Solino Home 100% Linen Kitchen Towels, Black, 17 x 26 in, Set of 2For the kitchen: two 100% linen towels that dry fast

The splurge
Solino Home 100% Linen Tablecloth, Natural, 60 x 108 inFor the host: a 100% linen cloth for a table of 6 to 8
9th anniversary: willow or pottery, or leather

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Emile Henry Modern Classics 9-Inch Deep Pie Dish, SugarFor the baker: Burgundy clay, from freezer to a 500°F oven to table

Under $25
Saikai Hasami Ware Common Mug, GrayFor one coffee drinker: Hasami porcelain made in Japan, 11.2 fl oz

The splurge
Bellroy Travel Wallet, Leather Passport Holder, CocoaFor the anniversary trip: passport, tickets, 10 cards and a pen
10th anniversary: aluminum or tin, or diamond jewelry

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Bialetti Moka Express Stovetop Espresso Maker, 6-CupThe aluminum moka pot, made in Italy since 1933

The splurge
LEVEL8 Zipperless Aluminum Frame Suitcase, 24 in, BlackAn aluminum-frame suitcase with no zipper, 24 in
15th anniversary: crystal, or watches

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Waterford Lismore Toasting Flute PairThe anniversary toast: two Waterford Lismore crystal flutes

Under $25
Glencairn Whisky Glass, Gift Set of 2For the whisky drinker: 2 lead-free crystal Glencairns

The splurge
Citizen Men's Addysen Eco-Drive Watch, Sapphire Crystal, Gray DialFor him: Eco-Drive under a sapphire crystal, 100 m water resistant
20th anniversary: china, or platinum

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Lenox Federal Platinum Bone China 5-Piece Place SettingBoth of this year’s materials: Lenox Federal Platinum bone china

The splurge
Mikasa Platinum Crown 40-Piece Dinnerware Set, Service for 8To replace the wedding china: platinum bands, service for 8

Unexpected
Chimahaga Traditional Kintsugi Repair Kit, BasicFor the wedding china that breaks: mend it with urushi and gold
25th anniversary: sterling silver

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PANDORA Heart Clasp Snake Chain Bracelet, 7.5 inPandora’s sterling charm bracelet: add a charm each year

Under $25
PAVOI 925 Sterling Silver Huggie EarringsSmall sterling silver huggie hoops for everyday wear

The splurge
TRAVELKING All Aluminum Carry-On, Silver, 20 inA silver aluminum carry-on for the anniversary trip
30th anniversary: pearl, or diamond

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Ross-Simons Cultured Pearl Necklace, Sterling Silver, 16 InchesThe classic for this year: a 16-inch strand of cultured pearls

Under $25
Harney & Sons Dragon Pearl Jasmine Tea, 20 SachetsPearls to steep: green tea hand-rolled with jasmine, 20 sachets

The splurge
Citizen Women's Eco-Drive Two-Tone Watch, Mother-of-Pearl DialFor a daily watch: a mother-of-pearl dial, 100 m water resistant
40th anniversary: ruby

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Trustmark Chatham Created Ruby Stud Earrings, 2 mm, White GoldLab-grown ruby by Chatham: small 2 mm studs in white gold

Under $25
Squirrel Brand Ruby Cacao Pretzel Twists, 20 oz JarA ruby to snack on: pretzels in pink ruby chocolate, 20 oz jar

The splurge
Bulova Super Seville Mini Watch, Red Mother-of-Pearl Dial, 25 mmA 25 mm steel watch with a red mother-of-pearl dial
50th anniversary: gold

Under $25
Lawrence Frames Classic Bead Picture Frame, 5 x 7, GoldA gold beaded frame for the wedding photo, 5 x 7

The splurge
Ross-Simons Cultured Pearl Station Necklace, 14kt Gold, 16 InchesFreshwater pearls spaced on a fine 14kt gold chain, 16 inches



